Our card for today, Friday, February 9th, is taken from the Magical Messages from the Fairies Oracle Cards – Walk Away – “Leave the unhealthy situation, and enjoy the new doors that open as a result!”
This card is telling us that if we find ourselves in an unhealthy situation, be that a marriage, a relationship of any kind, a job, or any other situation that causes us to feel afraid, or under attack, or to suffer any form of abuse, physical, emotional or mental, it is time to walk away, to get out of there now and keep a healthy distance between ourselves and the person or situation. Anything that makes us feel small, or unworthy, or in fear for our own personal safety is too high a price to pay for money, or love, or success. As hard as it might be, it is better to get out now and start over. Generally speaking, anything that does what I have mentioned above is not meant for us. The feelings of unworthiness, or being attacked, or fear for our safety, or anything negative that makes us feel threatened in any way, is the universe’s way of showing us it’s time to move on and find something better.
I’m not saying it’s easy. I had to leave my marriage because my ex was emotionally, mentally, and, on occasion, physically abusive. I always felt afraid that I might say or do something that would set him off. Our daughter was 8 years old when I left. It was hard to leave because at the time I wasn’t working and I had no money, but my family and friends were very supportive and I moved in with my parents for a short time till I got back on my feet. The day I left my ex I got a call with a job offer. Even with all that had happened, I still questioned if I had made the right decision for a while afterwards, but that was because he had taken away my self-esteem and self-confidence.
So if we find ourselves in any situation that eats away at our soul and destroys our self-confidence, or makes us feel small or afraid in any way, chance are we are not meant to be with that person, or in that job, or in that relationship. It’s time to walk away and wait for new opportunities and people to show up in our lives. Remember that as long as we continue to hold onto the old, all the new things that are meant for us can’t find the space to come into our lives.
Have a great day everyone! ~Namaste~
Love✲ ¸¸.•*¨¸.☆.¸＊°˚ ˚
& Light ♫☯♪ ☼ Carolyn & Company
Artwork taken from the Magical Messages from the Fairies Oracle Cards, Walk Away.